Losing Your Father: Finding Strength Through Islamic Guidance

Few losses change a person's life as profoundly as the death of a father. Whether he was your protector, your teacher, your provider, your best friend, or simply a reassuring presence in your life, his absence can leave a silence that feels impossible to fill. Even years after his passing, certain moments, a familiar scent, a family gathering, or hearing advice he once gave can bring the grief rushing back.

Islam does not ask us to pretend that this pain does not exist. Rather, it acknowledges the depth of human emotion while teaching us how to carry grief with faith, patience, and hope.

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ himself experienced the loss of loved ones throughout his life. He lost his father before he was born, his mother when he was a young child, his beloved grandfather, his uncle Abu Talib, his devoted wife Khadijah رضي الله عنها, and several of his own children. His life reminds us that grief is not a sign of weak faith. It is part of the human experience.

When his son Ibrahim passed away, the Prophet ﷺ held him, wept, and said:

"The eyes shed tears and the heart grieves, but we do not say except that which pleases our Lord. Indeed, we are saddened by your departure, O Ibrahim."

This beautiful hadith teaches us that crying is not contrary to patience. Islam does not forbid tears. It forbids despair and objection to the decree of Allah. Feeling heartbroken while remaining content with Allah's wisdom is one of the highest forms of patience.

Allah reminds us in the Qur'an:

"Every soul shall taste death, and you will only be given your full compensation on the Day of Resurrection."

Surah Aal Imran 3:185

Death is the one certainty every family will face. Although knowing this does not remove the pain, it helps us remember that this separation is temporary. For the believer, death is not the end but the beginning of another stage of existence.

It is natural to replay memories and wish for one more conversation, one more embrace, or one more opportunity to express gratitude. If you still carry regrets, remember that Allah's mercy is vast. One of the greatest gifts Islam gives us is that our relationship with our parents does not end when they leave this world.

The Prophet ﷺ taught that when a person dies, all of their deeds come to an end except for three things. One of these is a righteous child who prays for them.

Every sincere du'a you make for your father reaches him by the permission of Allah. Asking Allah to forgive him, expand his grave, grant him light, elevate his rank, and admit him into Jannatul Firdaus is among the greatest acts of love you can offer him.

Giving charity on his behalf is another beautiful way to continue honouring him. Supporting a mosque, helping someone in need, providing water, donating Qur'ans, sponsoring education, or contributing to any ongoing charitable project can become a source of continuous reward for him if done with the intention that Allah accepts it on his behalf.

Maintaining the family ties that your father valued is also an act of righteousness. Visiting relatives, caring for your mother if she is living, checking on his friends, and preserving the values he taught are all ways of keeping his legacy alive. The Prophet ﷺ emphasised that honouring a parent's friends after their death is among the highest forms of dutifulness.

Grief often comes in waves. Some days you may feel at peace, while other days the loss feels as though it happened yesterday. This is completely natural. Healing is not about forgetting. It is about learning to carry love and loss together while continuing to trust Allah's plan.

There may also be moments when you question why Allah took your father when you still needed him. These questions often arise from pain rather than disbelief. Islam encourages us to remember that Allah is Al Hakim, the Most Wise, and Al Rahman, the Most Merciful. His wisdom extends beyond what we can understand in this life.

Allah says:

"It may be that you dislike something while it is good for you, and it may be that you love something while it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know."

Surah Al Baqarah 2:216

Sometimes the greatest comfort comes not from finding all the answers but from trusting the One who knows them.

One day, every believer hopes for a reunion that will never again be interrupted by separation. Allah describes the people of Paradise as being reunited with those they loved in faith. This promise gives hope to every grieving heart. If both parent and child die upon faith, Allah can reunite them in eternal happiness where there is no death, no illness, no sadness, and no farewell.

Until that day, continue making du'a for your father. Speak well of him. Continue the good that he began. Live in a way that would make him proud before Allah. Let your character become part of his ongoing legacy.

If today your heart feels heavy because you miss your father, know that Allah sees every tear that no one else notices. He knows every silent prayer you whisper and every ache you carry. Turn to Him often, for no one heals hearts like the One who created them.

May Allah forgive all our fathers, have mercy upon them, expand and illuminate their graves, accept their good deeds, overlook their shortcomings, and grant them the highest ranks of Jannatul Firdaus. May He grant patience to every son and daughter who mourns them, replace grief with hope, and reunite believing families in Paradise where they will never be separated again. Ameen.

Jewish socialist Yasmine Johnson at the Royal Commission into Anti-Semitism and Social Cohesion

 

Yasmine Johnson, Jewish socialist and co-convenor of Students for Palestine (Australia) testifies at the Royal Commission into Anti-Semitism and Social Cohesion on Monday 13 July 2026

Bek Lover On TYT: Breaking Down the "Muslim Invasion" Narrative

 

Bek Lover joins Cenk Uygur on The Young Turks (TYT) for an in-depth conversation on the "Muslim Invasion" narrative, media propaganda, Islam in America, Albania, U.S. politics, free speech, lobbying, history, and the importance of building bridges across political divides.

The Cult Around Israel No One Wants to Talk About

 

For eighteen centuries, Christianity never taught what most American evangelicals now believe about Israel.
So where did it come from?
In this video I investigated the origins of Christian Zionism — the theology, the money, and the foreign influence operations actively targeting American churches right now. What I found was a paper trail hiding in plain sight, registered with the U.S. Department of Justice.
This is the story they don't want you to find.

Who am I? Understanding Identity

 

Nu’ayman ibn Amr (ra): The Comedian Among the Companions | The Firsts | Dr. Omar Suleiman

 

One of the Prophet's ﷺ Companions was the kind of man who could walk into a room and have everyone laughing. 

Nu'ayman ibn Amr (ra) was a gem, beloved for the joy he carried wherever he went. He pulled pranks on the Prophet ﷺ himself, talked his way into mischief no one else would dare, and once sold a fellow Sahabi as a joke that people laughed about for a whole year.

But behind the laughter, he was carrying something heavier. He struggled with alcohol addiction, and he kept falling back into it. 

What the Prophet ﷺ said when a Companion cursed him for it is not what you'd expect.

Discover the story of the funniest Sahabi who ever lived, the struggle behind the jokes, and three lessons on how the Prophet ﷺ dealt with someone who kept falling.

"Christian Teacher Tried to Convert Muslim Kids" - Inspiring Revert Story

 

Raised in a deeply devoted Irish Catholic family, Sister Daisy grew up believing Islam was harsh and Muslims were people to fear. With a sister who became a nun and uncles who were priests, she never imagined that accepting a teaching position in Saudi Arabia would completely change her understanding of Islam, Jesus, and the people she had misunderstood.

While living among Muslims, Sister Daisy was surprised to discover the deep love, respect, and honour Islam gives to Jesus (peace be upon him) and Mary (peace be upon her). Through conversations about the Quran, witnessing the kindness and hospitality of Muslims, and searching sincerely for the truth, she realised that many of her assumptions about Islam were based on misconceptions rather than firsthand experience. Her journey eventually led her to embrace Islam alongside her children.

In this inspiring testimony, Sister Daisy shares how she found peace, purpose, and what she describes as true freedom through Islam. Watch her remarkable journey from prejudice to understanding, and hear why she says that embracing Islam brought her even closer to loving Jesus (peace be upon him). If you'd like to learn more, read the Quran with an open heart and seek knowledge from authentic sources.

Japanese Professor Converts to Islam - "Cucumber Led Me to Islam"

 

Naoki Yamamoto had entered a Christian University to become a pastor. But there, he unexpectedly came across the book Tawhid, which made him question his entire life. When he emailed the author, it turned into a meeting filled with tears and a deep connection.

Years later, while still not a Muslim, he spent his first Ramadan in Egypt. One day while fasting, he saw the school’s gatekeeper breaking his fast with only one cucumber… In that moment, he felt Islam enter his heart.
And within just 2–3 days, he became Muslim. 🌙 

A Simple Way to Continue Kindness for Our Parents Through Sadaqah Jariyah

 

Losing a parent leaves a space in our hearts that never truly disappears. Even though they are no longer with us, our love for them can continue through our actions. One of the most beautiful ways to honour their memory is by giving sadaqah jariyah, a continuous charity that benefits others and, by Allah's mercy, continues to bring rewards.

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught that when a person passes away, their deeds come to an end except for three things: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who prays for them. This gives us hope that we can still do something meaningful for our parents after they have returned to Allah.

Sadaqah jariyah can take many forms. It could be helping to build a well that provides clean water, contributing towards a mosque, supporting the construction of a school, donating Qur'ans, planting trees that provide shade and fruit, or helping fund healthcare for those in need. Any charity that continues to benefit people over time can become a lasting source of reward.

When giving, make the intention that the reward is for your parents. Sincerity is what matters most. Whether your contribution is large or small, Allah knows your intention and your love for those you are remembering.

Alongside charity, never underestimate the power of making dua for your parents. Ask Allah to forgive them, grant them mercy, expand their graves with light, and admit them into Jannah. These heartfelt prayers are among the greatest gifts a child can offer.

Acts of kindness done in their name can also become a source of comfort for those left behind. Every life touched by your generosity becomes a reminder that love does not end with death. Instead, it continues through compassion, generosity, and prayer.

May Allah accept every act of charity given on behalf of our parents, forgive their shortcomings, shower them with His mercy, and reunite us with them in Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen.

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 Zack Polanski is joined by historian William Dalrymple.

7 Conquests He ﷺ Promised Before The Hour | Signs of the Hour Ep. 7 | Dr. Omar Suleiman

 

Do you believe in “impossible” victories? 

The Prophet ﷺ foretold several conquests that would occur before the emergence of the Dajjal. Many have already happened. The timing of Ghazwat al-Hind (Battle for India) is debated. And in between are other events he ﷺ predicted, such as the Mongol invasions. 

From Jerusalem to Constantinople, discover which battles and conquests are part of the signs of the Day of Judgement. 

Tie Your Camel: The Islamic Balance Between Trust in Allah and Personal Responsibility

Among the most frequently quoted teachings in Islamic spirituality is the Prophetic instruction:
 "Tie your camel and trust in Allah."

This concise statement captures a central principle of Islamic theology and ethics: true reliance upon Allah (tawakkul) does not negate human effort. Rather, genuine tawakkul requires a believer to employ the means Allah has provided while recognizing that all outcomes ultimately rest with Him.

Throughout the Qur'an, the Sunnah, and the writings of classical scholars, Muslims are taught to harmonize faith with action, dependence upon Allah with responsible planning, and spiritual trust with practical effort. This balance protects believers from both excessive self-reliance and passive fatalism.
 

 The Hadith of "Tie Your Camel"

The narration is reported from Anas ibn Malik (رضي الله عنه) that a man asked the Prophet ﷺ:

> "O Messenger of Allah, should I tie my camel and trust in Allah, or leave it untied and trust in Allah?"

The Prophet ﷺ replied:
 "Tie it and trust in Allah."

Reported by Imam al-Tirmidhi in his *Sunan* (2517), who classified it as a hasan (good) narration.

Though brief, this hadith establishes a foundational principle: reliance upon Allah must be accompanied by taking appropriate means (al-akhdh bil-asbab).
Tawakkul in the Qur'an

The Qur'an repeatedly commands believers to place their trust in Allah.

Allah says:
 "And whoever relies upon Allah – then He is sufficient for him."
 (Qur'an 65:3)

Similarly:
 "And upon Allah let the believers rely."

 (Qur'an 3:122)

And:

 "So when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely upon Him."
 (Qur'an 3:159)

Notice the sequence in this verse. Allah mentions decision-making and consultation before reliance. The believer is expected to deliberate, plan, and act, and then entrust the result to Allah.

This demonstrates that tawakkul is not abandonment of effort; rather, it follows effort.

 Taking the Means: A Qur'anic Pattern

The Qur'an consistently portrays the Prophets as taking practical measures while placing complete trust in Allah.
Prophet Nuh (Noah) عليه السلام

Although Allah could have saved Nuh directly, He commanded him:
 "Construct the Ark under Our observation and Our inspiration."
 (Qur'an 11:37)

The construction of the Ark itself was a means through which Allah's decree was fulfilled.

Prophet Musa (Moses) عليه السلام

At the Red Sea, Allah instructed Musa:
 "Strike the sea with your staff."
(Qur'an 26:63)

Allah could have parted the sea without any apparent means, yet Musa was commanded to act.

Maryam (Mary) عليها السلام

While enduring the pains of childbirth, she was instructed:
 "Shake toward yourself the trunk of the palm tree; it will drop upon you ripe, fresh dates."
 (Qur'an 19:25)

Despite her weakened state, Allah commanded an action before providing sustenance.

These examples reveal a recurring divine pattern: believers are instructed to take the means even when Allah alone creates the result.

The Prophet ﷺ as the Greatest Example of Tawakkul

No one possessed greater trust in Allah than the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Yet no one was more diligent in taking practical measures.

During the Hijrah

When migrating from Makkah to Madinah, the Prophet ﷺ:

* Planned the route carefully.
* Chose trustworthy companions.
* Arranged for provisions.
* Concealed his movements from enemies.
* Took refuge in the Cave of Thawr.

Despite his certainty in Allah's protection, he employed every reasonable strategy available.
 

 In Battle

The Prophet ﷺ wore armor in battle, organized military ranks, appointed scouts, and developed defensive strategies.

Had tawakkul meant abandoning precaution, the Prophet ﷺ would not have adopted such measures.

Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (d. 751 AH) observed that the Prophet ﷺ was the most complete example of combining reliance upon Allah with utilizing worldly means established by Allah.
 

 Classical Scholarly Commentary

 
 Imam al-Ghazali (d. 505 AH)

In *Ihya' Ulum al-Din*, Imam al-Ghazali explains that abandoning lawful means while claiming trust in Allah reflects ignorance rather than spirituality.

He argues that Allah created causes and effects as part of His wisdom, and utilizing those causes is itself obedience to Allah.

According to al-Ghazali, genuine tawakkul resides in the heart, not in neglecting action.
 Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah (d. 728 AH)

Ibn Taymiyyah wrote:
"Turning away from the means altogether is a deficiency in reason, while relying upon the means themselves is a deficiency in tawhid."

The balanced path is to employ the means while recognizing that they possess no independent power apart from Allah's permission.
Ibn al-Qayyim (d. 751 AH)

In *Madarij al-Salikin*, Ibn al-Qayyim states that abandoning the means contradicts the Sunnah and the divine order established in creation.

He explains that reliance upon Allah and taking the means are not opposites. Rather, they are complementary acts of worship.

The heart relies upon Allah, while the limbs engage in action.

 Imam al-Nawawi (d. 676 AH)

Commenting on various hadiths concerning reliance upon Allah, Imam al-Nawawi emphasized that Islam encourages seeking treatment for illness, preparing provisions for travel, and taking precautions against harm.

Such actions do not diminish tawakkul; they complete it.
Distinguishing Tawakkul from Fatalism

A common misconception is to equate tawakkul with passive resignation.

Islam rejects this notion.

The Prophet ﷺ said:  "The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, though there is good in both. Be eager for that which benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not become helpless."
Sahih Muslim (2664)

This hadith combines three elements:

1. Pursuing beneficial action.
2. Seeking Allah's assistance.
3. Rejecting helplessness and passivity.

These principles form the essence of Islamic tawakkul.

Practical Applications in Contemporary Life

 Education

Students should study diligently, seek knowledge from qualified teachers, and prepare thoroughly for examinations. Success is then entrusted to Allah.
Employment and Business

Believers are encouraged to pursue lawful earnings, develop professional skills, and plan responsibly while recognizing that provision (rizq) comes from Allah alone.

Health and Medicine

The Prophet ﷺ said:
"Seek treatment, for Allah has not created a disease except that He has created for it a cure."
 Sunan Abi Dawud (3855)

Seeking medical treatment is therefore consistent with reliance upon Allah.
 Family Life

Building strong marriages, raising children, and maintaining family ties require active effort alongside sincere supplication and trust in Allah's guidance.

Theological Balance: Means and the Creator of Means

Ahl al-Sunnah affirm two truths simultaneously:

1. Allah alone creates all outcomes.
2. Allah has commanded His servants to utilize lawful means.

The means do not independently produce results. Rather, Allah creates outcomes through means according to His wisdom.

This understanding preserves both tawhid (affirming Allah's ultimate power) and human responsibility.

The hadith "Tie your camel and trust in Allah" summarizes a profound Islamic worldview. It teaches that believers must neither depend entirely on their own efforts nor abandon effort under the guise of faith.

The Qur'an, the Sunnah, and the teachings of the classical scholars all point toward the same balanced path: employ the means that Allah has provided, fulfill your responsibilities with excellence, and place complete trust in Allah regarding the outcome.

As Ibn al-Qayyim beautifully summarized, the heart's reliance upon Allah and the body's engagement with the means are not contradictory. They are two dimensions of the same act of worship.

The believer ties the camel—not because the rope guarantees safety—but because Allah has commanded responsibility. The believer trusts in Allah—not because effort is unnecessary—but because every outcome ultimately belongs to Him alone.

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Allah says almost the same thing three times in this passage: turn your face toward the Sacred Mosque. The Quran doesn't repeat without purpose. In this episode, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan explains what the repetition is pointing to in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:149–150): every action we take should carry the same direction, the same purposefulness, as turning toward the Ka’bah in prayer. 

It cannot be that we face the Qibla for salah and then turn every other direction in our dealings, our character and our commitments. Allah makes the point explicit: turn toward Me so that people will not have a case against you on the Day of Judgment. Don't be afraid of them. Be afraid of Me. 

Ustadh Nouman connects this to the story of Ibrahim (AS), for whom standing against the pressure of people meant being thrown into fire and for whom Allah completed His favor anyway. The same promise is extended to us.

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Winning Hearts Through Character: Sharing Islam by Living Its Values

 

In a world filled with noise, arguments, and competing ideas, one of the most powerful ways to introduce people to Islam is not through debate, but through character. Throughout Islamic history, countless people were drawn to Islam not because they were persuaded by lengthy discussions, but because they witnessed Muslims embodying honesty, kindness, justice, humility, and compassion.

The Power of Example

Islam teaches that actions often speak louder than words. When a Muslim demonstrates integrity in business, patience in hardship, generosity toward others, and respect for people of all backgrounds, they become a living reflection of Islamic teachings. Such behavior naturally sparks curiosity and admiration.

Many people form opinions about Islam based on the Muslims they encounter. If our conduct reflects the beauty of the faith, we can help others see Islam through its true values rather than through misconceptions or stereotypes.

Following the Prophetic Model

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was known for his excellent character long before he began publicly calling people to Islam. He earned the trust of his community through honesty, reliability, and compassion. His treatment of family, friends, strangers, and even opponents demonstrated the principles he preached.

People were often attracted to Islam because they saw sincerity and goodness in his actions. This teaches an important lesson: effective invitation begins with personal example.

Key Islamic Values That Inspire Others
Honesty and Trustworthiness

Being truthful and dependable builds credibility. Whether at work, school, or in daily interactions, honesty reflects a core Islamic principle and earns respect from others.

Kindness and Compassion

Simple acts of kindness can leave lasting impressions. Helping a neighbor, supporting someone in need, or showing empathy during difficult times demonstrates the mercy that Islam encourages.

Patience and Good Manners

People notice how we respond under pressure. Remaining calm, respectful, and patient during disagreements can be more influential than winning an argument.

Justice and Fairness

Treating everyone fairly, regardless of their background, beliefs, or status, reflects the Islamic commitment to justice and human dignity.

Humility

Humility allows people to connect with us authentically. Rather than presenting ourselves as morally superior, we should acknowledge our own imperfections and strive for continual growth.

Building Relationships Before Conversations

Meaningful discussions about faith often arise naturally through genuine relationships. When people trust and respect a Muslim, they are more likely to ask questions about Islam and be open to learning.

Instead of focusing on persuading others, focus on being a good friend, colleague, neighbor, or community member. Authentic relationships create opportunities for sincere dialogue.

Avoiding Pressure and Respecting Choice

Islam teaches that faith must be embraced freely and sincerely. The goal is not to pressure people but to share truth with wisdom, respect, and kindness. Every person has the right to make their own decisions regarding belief.

When discussing Islam, listening is just as important as speaking. Understanding another person's experiences and concerns helps create meaningful conversations based on mutual respect.

One of the most effective ways to introduce people to Islam is by living according to its values. A smile, an act of honesty, a moment of patience, or a gesture of compassion can communicate more about Islam than a thousand arguments.

When Muslims strive to embody the teachings of their faith, they become ambassadors of Islam through their character. By leading with kindness, integrity, and respect, we can help others see the beauty of Islam in action and open the door to meaningful understanding.

Norman Finkelstein: Palestinians Tried EVERYTHING before October 7th - A Slave's Case for Resistance

 

In this Exclusive presentation, Dr. Norman Finkelstein examines the framework through which we assess violence, resistance, and state power. His central argument: what unfolded in Gaza cannot be understood within the conventional language of "war" or "self-defense"—but requires a more precise legal and moral category.

In war, the objective is military defeat. In genocide, the civilian population is the target. Finkelstein's challenge: name a single battle in Gaza. The absence of conventional military engagement, he contends, reveals the operation's true nature.

Using the Nat Turner rebellion as historical parallel, Finkelstein forces us to confront how context is erased when power controls the narrative. Who gets to define "violence" when the conditions that produce it are systematically ignored?

The 17-year blockade, the 2006 election sanctions, the Gaza Freedom Flotilla, the Great March of Return sniper fire—all documented, all dismissed. Finkelstein traces how every diplomatic, legal, and nonviolent avenue was met with escalation, not engagement.

Citing Frederick Douglass: "The thing worse than rebellion is the thing that causes rebellion."

Israel forfeited its moral claim to self-defense long before October 7.