Always an uplifting watch. Love this episode alhamdulilah.
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Thursday, 12 August 2021
I Don't Love Her!
Umar ibnul Khattab [رضي الله عَنه] said to a man who was thinking of divorcing his wife:
“Why do you want to divorce her?” He said, “I do not love her.” ‘Umar رضي الله عنه said, “Must every house be built on love? What about loyalty and appreciation?”
He went on:
'You men! When we marry, we give a serious promise to her. A woman gives birth to children and goes through hard times during her pregnancy. Then she suckles the baby and takes care all nights about her children, when they get sick or need anything. She sacrifices her beauty and youth for being a mother.
How fair is if, when her husband leaves her, when she is grown up? If she would have never take care of her home and family, instead of taking care of her body and beauty, her husband would say: “What a bad mother she is.”
Where is integrity and loyalty?
Fear Allah regarding your behaviour towards your wives.'
[Al-Bayan wa at-Tabayeen, 2/101; Fara’id al – Kalam, p.113]
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Saturday, 12 April 2014
Umar ibn al Khattab among the most influential people in history
Another surprise to many people was Michael Hart's choice of Umar Ibn Al-Khattab among the 100 influential persons, whom he not only included among these 100 persons but also put him as number two on the second half (51 to 100) of his choice. Umar Ibn Al-Khattab is 52nd on the list. He ranked him higher than such famous men as Charlemagne and Julius Caesar. He further says that Umar's brilliant leadership was responsible for the expansion of the Islamic territory and the enormous extent that it did occur under him. He further says that Umar Ibn Al-Khattab ordered the Muslim armies to leave the natives of the conquered land in peace and ordered the military personnel not to force the natives to convert to Islam.
Umar Ibn Al-Khattab is a pioneering figure in the Islamic world. He was a leader, a statesman, a pious and God conscious Muslim who showed respect for all individuals including non-Muslims and he ordered the Muslims to treat non-Muslims with respect. He showed us how to apply the Quranic injunction "there is no compulsion in religion."
Under the leadership of Umar ibn Al-Khattab Islam spread widely not by the sword but by virtue of its beauty, simplicity, transparency, openness and the leadership provided by him. Another reason for the rapid growth of Muslim community was the conversion of some high-placed religious personalities from among the Jewish and the Christian communities. These religious personalities saw Islam as a continuation and affirmation of the Abrahamic faith. Ardkun, the Bishop of Damascus, accepted Islam after the Islamic armies entered the city under Khalid bin Walid. The followers of Ardkun became attracted towards the new faith and became Muslim. The chief administrator of the city of Shata in Egypt, famous for its textiles manufacturing, left his town with two thousand men and went to city of Damietta where the Muslim army was camped and embraced Islam with his followers.
During the time of Umar ibn Al-Khattab, the non-Muslims enjoyed freedom of religion. They were free to perform their religious rites, ring bells to start their religious ceremonies, take out the Cross in procession and hold religious fairs. Even treaties were signed during the time of Umar ibn Al-Khattab with non-Muslims that guaranteed freedom of religion. The writ of Hudhaifa bin al-Yaman to people of the region of Mahdinar says, "They shall not be required to change their religion, nor shall any interference be made in their religious practices."
Umar ibn Al-Khattab followed the principle of equality very strictly and would not tolerate any kind of distinction. Once, Umar ibn Al-Khattab had a difference of opinion with Ubayy bin Ka'b. The matter was referred and brought in the court of Qazi Zaid bin Thabit. When Umar ibn Al-Khattab arrived at the court the Qazi, Zaid bin Thabit, vacated his seat out of respect for the Khalifah. Umar ibn Al-Khattab, after observing the situation, said that this was the first injustice Zaid has done to the suit. Then he sat down next to Ubayy, his opponent.
Umar ibn Al-Khattab always favored individual freedom and self-respect. By word of mouth and through his writings he made it very clear that every human being was born free and no one should have to abase himself in front of others. Once, the son of Amr bin As abused and beat up a Copt Christian; on hearing this Umar ibn Al-Khattab had son of Amr punished publicly by the hand of the victim Copt Christian. Then Umar ibn Al-Khattab addressed both father and son and said, "Since when have you turned men into slaves, whereas they are born free of their mothers?"
The people of many cultures who accepted Islam faced new challenges. More complex questions regarding the Islamic way of life cropped up at the same time. Many of the questions could not be answered because clear rulings of the Holy Prophet or the Holy Qur'an were not available. The Qadis and Muftis appointed in towns and cities were Companions of the Prophet, yet they referred complicated questions to the Khalifah. The famous Sahabis who referred the question to Umar Ibn Al-Khattab are Abdullah bin Ma'sud, Ammar bin Yasar, Abu Musa Ash'ari, Abu Ubaidah bin Jarrah, Mughira bin Shuba and others. Umar ibn Al-Khattab gave his judgment after discussing these questions in the assembly of the companions. The discussions were conducted with the greatest freedom and acumen. Shah Wali-Ullah writes in Hujjatullah al-Baligha, "It was Umar's practice to consult the companions and hold discussions with them, until the veils were lifted and conviction was attained. For this reason Umar's dicta were accepted throughout the East and the West."
It is said that his writings, his letters and official instructions were as powerful as his speeches. In a letter to Abu Musa Ash'ari he wrote, "People generally hate their ruler, and I seek protection of Allah, if my people should entertain similar feelings about me. Avoid vain suspicions and keep away from malice, and don not encourage people of cherish vain hopes, and be careful of Allah's property, and guard yourself against evil men. If you find any people who are vindictively inclined towards the Muslim state, it is devilish inclination and must be put down by the sword, until they bow to Allah's decision and turn to better ways"
In another letter to Abu Musa Ash'ari he said, "The thing that strengthens one in execution of work and that one should not procrastinate; for if you do so, your affairs will heap up and overwhelm you and you will not then be able to decide what to do and what not to do, and you will fail in your work."
Umr Ibn Al-Khattab appointed Amr bin Al-As as the Governor of Egypt. Amr bin Al-As delayed remitting the revenue to the treasury. Umar ibn Al-Khattab wrote to him and reminded about the delay. Amr bin Al-As procrastinated. Umar ibn Al-Khattab sent him a strong letter, he wrote, "I understand that the thing that has kept you from replying is the fact that your subordinates are not good. They have made you a shield, and it is a disease for which I possess an effective remedy. I am surprised that I have written to you often and at length, but you neglected sending the revenue and have avoided giving straight answers. So Abu, Abdullah, don't worry. Due shall be taken from you and you shall pay them, for as the river yields pearls, so will you have to render the dues."
Umar ibn Al-Khattab used to end his speeches with following statement: "O God, let me not fall into an error, nor let me be called to account on unawares, nor let me fall into neglect."
Umar ibn Al-Khattab's actions speak louder about his character, his integrity and his love for the people in the Muslim state. He made rounds at night to gauge and evaluate the condition of the people. His achievements are reflection of his life.
- One who keeps his own counsel keeps his affairs in his own hand.
- Fear him whom you hate.
- The wisest man is he who can account for his actions.
- Do not put off today's work till tomorrow.
- What regresses never progresses?
- He who does not know evil will fall into it.
- When a man asks me a question, I know his intelligence.
- Don't forget your own self while preaching to others.
- The less of the world, the freer you live.
- Avoidance of sin is lighter than the pain of remorse.
- If patience and gratitude had been two she camels, it would have mattered little on which I rode. May God have mercy on him who sends me my faults for a present!
- During his Hajj pilgrimage to Makkah, Umar ibn Al-Khattab heard one of the camel drivers singing. People asked Umar ibn Al-Khattab as to why he did not stop the camel driver from singing. Umar ibn Al-Khattab replied, "Music was the camel driver's provision for a journey.
- Umar ibn Al-Khattab established the public treasury: Bait-ul-Mal
- Established courts of justice and appointed judges.
- Proposed and enforced use of the era of Hijra.
- Assumed the title of Amir-ul-Mu'minin.
- To engage the anti-Islamic forces he organized and established the War Department.
- Placed army reserves on the pay-roll. In addition to this, Umar Ibn Al-Khattab improved the army administration by providing every army corps with an officer of the treasury, an accountant, and number of interpreters, physicians and surgeons. He instructed the army commanders to submit accounts of war expenditures and list of the spoils of war. Historical records show that in 16 Hijri Ziyad bin Abi Sufyan came from city of Jalula Ð after its conquest - and brought with him the records of the accounts to Madinah and submitted them for Umar ibn Al-Khattab's perusal and review.
- Established Land Revenue Department, ordered survey and assessment of lands and also ordered conducting census. This required maintenance of the land revenue records in Persian, Syriac and Coptic languages. The accounts were kept on long rolled-up sheets.
- Founded cities: Kufah, Basrah, Jazirah, Fustat and Musal and undertook construction and building of canals.
- Divided conquered countries into provinces.
- Ordered collecting customs duties.
- Appointed officials for the collection of tax on the produce of sea.
- Gave permission to traders from foreign countries to conduct business in the Islamic territory.
- Organized jails and enforced use of the whip.
- Made rounds at night to gauge and evaluate the condition of the people. For relaxations he enjoyed lighter pursuits including poetry. Once he asked Abdullah bin Abbas to recite him poetry the whole night. At the time when dawn was breaking, he said, "Now recite the Holy Qur'an." During one of his night rounds around the city he heard the sound of music. He stopped and listened to the music and then moved on.
- Established military cantonments and had them located at strategic points.
- Organized Police Department.
- Set up a system to classify pedigree and non-pedigree horses.
- Built houses on the road from Makkah to Madinah for the comfort of the travelers and also established guest-houses in different cities. At that time a system was established for the clearance of land, construction of roads, building of bridges and other operations which are carried out by sappers and miner in present day armies. The local people of the lands were recruited to perform these duties.
- Provided stipends for the poor Jewish and Christian people.
- Established schools and provided salaries for school teachers and public lecturers.
- Proposed the principle of Qiyas and its formulation.
- Proposed exact division of inheritance.
- Proposed and inserted additional statement "Prayer is better than sleep" in the call for Fajr prayers.
- Ordained performing taraweeh prayers in congregation.
- Established law for the punishment of alcohol drinkers with eighty lashes.
- Proposed a method for preparing trusts.
- Obtained consensus of opinion for saying four takbirs in funeral prayer.
- Made arrangements for providing lights in mosques at night. It is stated that until the Khilafate of Umar ibn Al-Khattab there were no arrangements for lights in the mosques. A person by name Tamim Dari made the arrangements and supplied lamps for the mosques with Umar ibn Al-Khattab's permission.
- Established a procedure to giving salaries from the public treasury to Imams and Muazzins.
Tuesday, 25 February 2014
Was Hazrat Fatima (rta) Murdered?
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Many Shia 'brothers and sisters' take issue with me loving the Sahaba (rta) and all the Righteous Caliphs (as most Muslims do Alhamdulilah) they especially dont like me posting episodes of the recent Farouk Omar serial. One of the most common accusations levelled at our beloved caliph is the one below which I think the brother has answered very well indeed. :)
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Question:
According
to the Shia school of thought, Hazrat Umar (rta) is responsible of the
death of Hazrat Fatima (rta), the daughter of the Messenger of God. They
explain it further by claiming that when Hazrat Ali (rta) refused to do
bay’at (pledge allegiance to) at the hands of Hazrat Abu Bakr (rta),
Hazrat Umar (rta) stormed the house of Hazrat Ali (rta) with several
soldiers and during the struggle to enter the house Fatima (rta) got
injured and lost her unborn child and later after few months she passed
away. I want to know how true this is and what is the background of the
story? If Hzarat ‘Umar (rta) has anything to do with the death or injury
of Fatima (rta) then what is the status of Hazrat ‘Umar (rta) in Islam
in regards to this. Your prompt reply shall be highly appreciated.
Please note that one quick response would be that the narratives are not
reliable. But I am looking for a detained response on the issue. Whey
the narratives then are acceptable to shia and unacceptable to the
sunnis?
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Answer:
To
be able to accuse a Companion of the Prophet (sws) and in deed any
person of a crime as serious as murder (let alone murdering the beloved
daughter of the Prophet) one needs to have relevant and reliable
evidences.
We try to examine the available evidences here:
I. Evidence in Mainstream Sources
"The
accusation here is: The suspect (Umar) burned the door to the house of
the victim (Fatima) and pushed it on the victim, which resulted in the
miscarriage of her expected child."
Now let us look at one of the popular sources of evidence of this sort, one that is brought forward occasionally by Shia brothers:
Tarikh Al-Tabari:
It is recorded that Umar threatened to set the house of Fatima on fire. There is no mention that he actually did that.
Further
more, the hadith is not reliable. It is narrated via Muhammad Ibn Hamid
Ibn Hayyan. This is a very unreliable narrator. In the book of Tahzib Al-Tahzib
we read that Bukhari says: There are concerns about his narrations.
An-Nasayee says: Not reliable, has been reported that he was a liar.
Al-Joozajani says: Not reliable. Al-Razi says: I have 5000
ahadith from him and will not narrate even one of them. Saleh Ibn
Muhammad Al-Asadi says: I Haven't seen any one bolder to Allah Ta'Ala
than him. He used to collect ahadith and forge them together. I haven't
seen any one cleverer than him and Sulayman Al-Shazekuni in lying.
Baihaqi says: The Imam of Hadith, Ibne Khuzayma does not narrate from
him.
Based on the above we can safely conclude that the above evidence (in Tabari) is both insufficient and unreliable.
Moreover when we look further in the book of Tabari we find ahadith that conflict with the above story. Only few pages after the above record we read the following two:
· Abu Sufian asked Ali to give him his hand for Bay'at and Ali shouted at him and said we had agreed on Abu Bakr.
· When hearing about the Bay'at in Saqifa, Ali came out of his house while he was not dressed properly only to rush in doing bayat with Abu Bakr.
Please
note that here I am not arguing that the above two records are
reliable. All I am saying is that an unbiased mind should take all these
into consideration and test all of them before any attempts for ruling a
judgment.
It
is not a rational approach to ignore the rest of the records in books
like Tabari and only rely on those parts that suit our belief and even
then without any attempts to test the reliability of what they are
quoting.
I have examined a number of other sources that are usually referred to by Shia brothers (e.g. Al-Imama wa Al-Syasah, Al Iqd Al-Farid, Qurra Al-Ayn Fi Tafzil Al-Shaykhayn). In none of them have I found a record that fulfils the following conditions:
· Clearly suggesting that Umar actually burned the door or pushed the door on Fatima (RA).
· Having reliable chains of narrators (in fact the majority of these sources do not even have a chain of narrator)
· Not accompanying with conflicting records.
Based
on the above I can say that there is no evidence in the mainstream
sources that can support the accusation. I am more than happy to examine
any other sources that might be put forward.
II. Evidence in Shia Sources
It
is one of the basic rules of judgement that evidences for an accusation
should not be taken from the sources of those who have accused. Having
said that, and while appreciating that there are records in support of
the accusation in some of the Shia sources, I would like to point out
that it is very strange that in some of the more popular and old Shia
sources there are no mention of the incident.
For instance the book Al-Irshad by Mufid:
According to the Shia brothers the book is one of the very reliable sources of history not only because of its author (who is one of the gurus of Shia) but also because of the closeness of the time of writing the book to the time of the presence of Shia Imams.
In
his book, when it came to naming the children of Ali, (RA) initially we
find no mention of the name of the miscarried infant (Muhsin).
Mufid then says:
"and in Shia
there are some who say Fatima miscarried a male infant after the
Prophet, who had been given a name by the Prophet, and that is Muhsin.
So based on the saying of these people the children of Amir Almo'menin
(Ali) will be 18 and God knows best" (Irshad p. 336 by Mufid)
It is interesting that Mufid is not approving the miscarriage and attributes the story to some of Shia.
It is also interesting that even here there is no mention of the
alleged attack on Fatima (RA). This is while the book of Irshad is
dedicated to narrate the important incidents of the life of Shia Imams, including Ali (RA).
In Kafi, one of the four main books of Shi'ism
there is again no mention of the incident in the chapter on life of
Fatima. It merely says that Fatima was angry with Umar without any
references to any attacks taken place.
In Kashf Al-Qumah another classical book of Shi'ism again we read that there are differences of opinion about Muhsin and that some of Shia consider him to be the son of Ali from Fatima who died because of miscarriage. Again no mention of the incident itself.
Among the Shia
scholars, we have Allamah Fadhlullah who is famous for putting a
question mark on the incident and calling it unlikely because of the
conflicting records and also based on rationality. He was denounced
severely by other Shia scholars for his opinion.
Based on the above I think no judge can conclude that the Shia sources can provide us with satisfactory evidence.
III. Rationality
Being disappointed in finding hard evidence to rule against the suspect, let us now turn to rationality:
Ali according to Shia was the bravest of Arabs. In the Shia book Nahj Al-Balaqah
we read that he has said something to the effect that he was not afraid
of anything when it comes to protecting the right. I find it very
strange that such an incident could take place without Ali trying to
protect his wife (the daughter of the Prophet). We fail to find anything
about such natural reaction by Ali.
Later we find no attempts by Ali or any of the other companions or people closed to Ali's family to bring Umar to justice.
Not
only this, we even find Ali give the name of "Umar" to one of his
children. I do not want to claim that Ali named his son after Umar the
second Khalifa. I am well aware of the answer given by our Shia brothers
implying that the naming was not after Umar the second Khalifa. However
I find it very strange that someone like Ali could give the name of the
murderer of his wife (the daughter of the Prophet) to his son. Ali was
from the same family as the Prophet. It is narrated that the Prophet
never wanted to see the face of Wahshi the killer of his uncle Hamzah
even when Wahshi embraced Islam. This is a very serious issue. Today you
find no Shia with the name Umar. The other two sons of Ali,
Uthman and Abu Bakr were present in Karbala with Husayn and were
brutally martyred in protecting their brother. Yet when you go to the
mourning ceremonies of Shia brothers you will hear the story of all the
Ahl Albayt of Husayn except Uthman and Abu Bakr merely because of their
name. This attitude of Shia about names is very understandable
and acceptable if one holds the same view that Shia hold for these
companions. One wonders why Ali's attitude was not as would have been
expected from any human being. How many people do we know who are happy
to give the name of the murderer of their wife to their son? Any one who
is slightly familiar with the culture of Arab will appreciate that this
is even stranger for an Arab.
To
see the further complication, we will be amazed to find that according
to records in Shia books Ali gave her daughter Umme Kulthom to Umar as
his wife (although some Shia brothers make some arguments to deny this).
So here we have the husband of the victim not only calling his son with
the name of the murderer of his wife but also giving his daughter to
the murderer of his wife!
It
is also very strange to think that such a huge crime has been taken
place, and (not only Ali, but) none of the companions of the Prophet
(sws) ever bothers to complain about it and to bring the sinner to the
justice.
I think it is safe to conclude that even rationality does not support the accusation.
Now
all I discussed above was in a generic form, trying to forget the
personality of Umar. I think a Muslim who wants to be closer to Allah
Ta'ala and have better Taqwa should even have more cautious and fear in
accusing a close companion of the Prophet (sws) of such incident. Let us
not forget that we are advised in the Qur'an to pray that Allah cleanse
our hearts from any bad feelings about the early immigrants (i.e. Muhajerin) and Helpers (i.e. Ansar).
This of course does not mean that we cannot academically challenge
views or actions of any of them but at least we should be fair enough by
basing our criticism on sound evidence. I can guarantee we would not
criticise an ordinary man in our time of a crime as simple as theft with
evidences as irrelevant and as unreliable as the ones mentioned above.
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Abdullah Rahim Source:
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