Misyar, Secret Wives, Polygamy, Mut'ah: Halal or Haram? | Habeeb Akande

 

Habeeb Akande joins BITC to talk misyar, secret wives, polygamy, passport wives, sex negative culture, and the nafs. 

We unpack how some men cherry pick fiqh to justify secrecy, how praiseworthy aims differ from loophole hunting, and what real justice and consent look like in practice. 

We also ask the question, have Muslims adopted a Christian style suspicion of pleasure and projected it onto Islam. Habeeb speaks from classical learning and lived research, Maliki fiqh, usul, erotology, African and Muslim cultures. 

We cover consent, maintenance, time rotation, publicity, and the harm rule, then end with a practical justice audit couples can use today.